The Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, is an inclusive Dating Empowerment Coach, Certified NLP Practitioner, Author, Speaker, and TV/Radio/Podcast Host based in Los Angeles, California. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Award presented by the California National Organization For Women (NOW). She is dedicated to empowering ALL SINGLES IN ALL LIFESTYLES to have happy and enjoyable dating lives that best suit their dating & relationship wants, needs, and objectives. For 10 years, she has helped singles successfully navigate through the early stages of dating through empowerment and consent workshops at conferences and on college campuses, through her book, The Dating Guidebook, over 100 dating-related articles for various lifestyle and dating sites, hosting events for singles, working as a matchmaker, radio and TV interviews and through her podcast, The Dating Advice Girl Radio Show (voted one of the Top 10 Best Dating Podcasts on the Web in 2013 and listed as one of the Best Places for Dating Advice on Twitter). 

Erin hosts and participates in dating, self-help, consent workshops on college campuses and beyond, has hosted singles events in and around Los Angeles, and has gotten and given dating tips to celebs at events and on red carpets. She has been featured on Lifetime Network, Buzzfeed, ABC7 Los Angeles, and mentioned in The Guardian, Men’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, just to name a few media outlets.

A combination of ‘Dear Abby’, ‘Carrie Bradshaw’ and ‘Hitch’, Erin has worked as an event coordinator for various singles’ events, speed dating companies, and matchmaking agencies and has built a large network of loyal LA-based clients and followers.

Erin’s new book, The Consent Guidebook, is an easy-to-follow guide that offers practical advice, from over 30 experts, for establishing boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others.

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RESUME (Partial List)


2018 The Finance Bunch (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018 Dumb Gay Politics podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018 GirlBoner Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018 T&A Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2017 GirlBoner Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)

2017 The Love Script Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)

2017 Multiamory Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)

2016 The Biggest Problem in the Universe Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)

2016 Girl Boner (dating coach/podcast guest)


2018 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)

2018 ConvergeCon (panelist/speaker)

2018 ClexaCon (panelist/speaker)

2017 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)

2016 Sexual Health Expo LA & NYC workshop leader/speaker/press)

2015-2016 Bawdy Storytelling (live tweeting & instagramming for storytelling stage show)

2015 BIL Conference (workshop leader/speaker)

2015 The Pleasure Chest (online dating workshop/speaker)

2015 StartUp LA Worthy Women Panel (dating expert)


2018 The Guardian UK (dating expert)

2015 Men’s Health (dating expert/guest columnist)

2013 Chicago Tribune (dating expert/guest columnist)

2013 Dayton Daily News (dating expert)

2013 University of Dayton Magazine (dating expert/alumnus)


2015 Lifetime Network-Big Women, Big Love (workshop leader/speaker/dating coach)

2015 Living Dayton-WDTN Channel 2 (dating coach/segment guest)

2015 ABC7 Los Angeles (dating expert)

2015 Cal State Northridge (dating expert on university tv channel CSUN On Point)


2016 Inver Hills College Minnesota (dating workshop facilitator)

2016 Cal State Northridge (dating coach/panelist on Student TV station CSUN On Point)


2018 (featured dating expert)

2018 (dating expert)

2018 (dating expert)

2017 Attract Any Woman Anywhere-Amazon (dating coach)

2017 (featured dating coach)

2016 (dating coach on ‘Is It Okay?’ Panel)

2016 Afterbuzz TV (segment guest/dating coach)

2016 Black Hollywood Live (dating coach)

2012-2015 (weekly dating coach/dating columnist)

2015 (dating columnist)

2015 (dating columnist)

2013 (Top 10 dating experts on Twitter 2013)


2018 Suzanne DeLaurentiis’ Annual Oscar Viewing Gala For Veterans

2012-2015 Comic-Con (celeb round table/red carpet interviewer)

2014 Gracie Awards Celebrating Women In Media (red carpet interviewer)

2013 MTV Movie Awards (red carpet interviewer)


2014-2016 WriteGirl NonProfit (volunteer & celeb interviewer for red carpet charity event)


Los Angeles Singles (matchmaker/dating coach)