Erin ‘The Dating Advice Girl’ has been featured in Elle Magazine, The Guardian UK, Men’s Health Magazine, the Chicago Tribune and on networks including BBCThree, Buzzfeed, Lifetime Network, and more!

Erin is also a certified Intimacy Coordinator for TV/film. Find Erin on IMDB!

Send inquiries to Erin@TheDatingAdviceGirl.com

July 2023

Erin interviewed for Bumble Dating App about dating burnout 






June 2023

One of Pleasure Chest’s ‘Sex Educators to Follow’








May 2023

Featured in the SAG-AFTRA magazine as a LA Local Sexual Harassment Committee member










Feb 2023

One of Pleasure Chest’s ‘Black Sex Educators to Follow’









Dec 2022

Planet Sex w/Cara Delevigne (BBCThree)








Oct 2022

Featured Sexpert for USC’s Sex Week






Erin featured in USC’s Daily Trojan student newspaper







Erin interviewed by USC’s Annenberg School of Media







Apr 2022

Guest Speaker at Cal State LA






Feb 2022

One of Hashtag Open’s Black Sex & Relationship Educators to follow








Jan 2022







Nov 2021









Sept 2021







July 2021

Moderator for National Organization for Women (NOW) Conference 







June 2021










Nov 2020

Oct 2020

Sept 2020

Aug 2020

Dating Expert for the month of August on the Girl Boner podcast

July 2020

Supporting your Black partners, friends, and family members…a conversation

June 2020

On the Sex With Emily podcast – Interracial Dating in the time of Black Lives Matter

Q Salt Lake Magazine – Allyship is Sexy

May 2020

On the Sex with Emily podcast – COVID-19, Quarantine & Dating

April 2020

Chicago Tribune – COVID-19 & Dating


Mar 2020

Dating in the CoronaVirus Era – Medium

How To Know Someone is Interested – Blood & Milk

Jan 2020

Such an interesting convo on the Screw The Commute podcast about how Digital Dating has changed how we communicate with each other, how podcasting has evolved, and my professional journey.

Oct 2019

Sept 2019

Featured interview in University of Dayton magazine

Giving dating advice for AARP online

Aug 2019


Giving dating & consent advice on Damona Hoffman’s Dates & Mates podcast

Social mixer sponsored by Dating App HashtagOpen at The Pleasure Chest, West Hollywood

May 2019

Interviewed on the Doctor on Call podcast with Dr. Jane Greer

April 2019

Giving advice for ApartmentTherapy.com

On the red carpet interviewing actors Seth Rogen, Lauren Graham, Wayne Brady, Wendy McClendon-Covey, Kirby Howell-Baptiste, and Keiko Agena at non-profit WriteGirl’s annual charity event.

March 2019

A guest on the Vagesteem podcast talking about dating in 2019, navigating dating apps, black women’s desirability on dating apps, and so much more…

Named me one of the #EducatorsYouShouldFollow on twitter by SheVibe NYC

Named one of the ’14 Relationship Coaches You Should Follow on Twitter’ list’

February 2019

Partnership with the California National Organization For Women for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month featuring my consent book, The Consent Guidebook.


Featured in Elle Magazine (US) online about the pros and cons of being set up on a #date by friends.

On the Feminist Book Club podcast chatting about the ways we can cultivate a culture rooted in consent, even beyond our romantic relationships.


January 2019

Ohayocon Anime & Pop Culture Convention – Columbus, OH


December 2018

Gender Equity Award Winner from The California National Organization for Women for my work in the MeToo movement and consent education


September 2018

Giving advice in the Chicago Tribune

Check out my dating & consent chat on the Lunch With The Finance Bunch podcast talking about how to date in this new era of consent! Watch on YouTube and listen on SoundCloud.

Youtube: https://youtu.be/iGiGJdAnhZc

Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-762860259/lwtfb-erin-tillman-the-dating-advice-girl

August 2018

Interview with VoyageLA Magazine

July 2018

July 14/15 – PolyDallas Millenium Conference – Dallas, TX – Consent, Coercion, and Negotiation panel

June 2018

June 20 – The Consent Guidebook signing & discussion at The Center For Sex & Culture – San Francisco, CA

June 2 – Private Event – Los Angeles, CA

May 2018

May 19 – Positive Models For Healthy Sexuality Event – Los Angeles, CA

May 4-6 CatalystCon – Los Angeles, CA – Beautism and Sexuality Panel: How Society’s Representation of Beauty and Image Impact Sexual Self-Expression & The Ins and Outs of Sex Writing: How to Move Past Fear and Flourish Creatively

April 2018

April 11 – East LA College – Los Angeles, CA – MeToo Panel for Sexual Assault Awareness Month

April 8 – ConvergeCon-Sexuality Convention -Vancouver B.C., Canada – Beyond Yes and No Keynote Panel: A Discussion on the Nuance & Cultural Impact of #MeToo in the Age of Consent


April 6 – ClexaCon-LGBT Convention – Las Vegas, NV – Creative Activism Panel

Interview on the Girl Boner podcast with August McLaughlin

Interview on The Dumb Gay Politics Podcast with Julie & Brandy

So excited to be interviewed on the latest episode of the Dumb Gay Politics podcast! I’m talking with hosts Julie & Brandy about my new book The Consent Guidebook and related consent topics! Get ready for a lively discussion! My interview starts around the 40 min mark. Listen here!

Mar 2018

Giving dating advice on Livestrong.com

Feb 2018

Check out my new interview on StashInvest.com where I’m giving advice on when and how new couples should discuss their finances (or lack thereof)!

Feb 2018

Interview in The Guardian UK about dating and sex in the #MeToo era

Jan 2018

Interview in Sexual Health Magazine: The Rise of Online Dating And Hookup Culture

Jan 2018

Interview on The T&A Talk Sex Podcast

There’s a lot of sparring on social media over whether the Aziz Ansari story amounts to “just bad sex” or if it speaks to something more about our relationship to sex in American culture, and how we can educate ourselves to practice true consent.  Christina chats with Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, @datingadvicegrl, about the nuances of the encounter, what’s really going on in our culture around objectification and dehumanization, the new definition of consent and a generational disagreement, and what Erin’s ideal version of a date would look like (healthy communication about respective intentions), and the space for each person to decide.

Dec 2017

Interview on Girl Boner Radio w/August McLaughlin

Girl Boner Dec 2018
Girl Boner 2018 Pic

Nov 2017

Interview on DatingAdvice.com


2017 Media Reel


Jan 2016

Erin-Tillman from StartUp DTLA on Vimeo.

Dec 2015

Feb 2015

Interview: My thoughts about dating in the workplace


Feb 2015

Giving Valentine’s Day date tips to guys in Men’s Health Magazine


Jan 2015


Facilitating a dating workshop on Episode 3 of Lifetime Network’s docu-soap ‘Big Women: Big Love’ for the women on the show. Watch the full segment here!

Dec 2014

Named one of the 15 Best Twitter Accounts For Dating Advice on Twitter! Thanks  www.DateMyPet.com !!


Nov 2013

Check out my take on dating during the holidays in my interview with the Chicago Tribune…


Nov 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on Tuff and Tender on EmpowerMe.tv

In this episode of Tuff and Tender, Ric and Erin answer questions regarding commitment. Whether it’s marriage, family, or friendship, the foundation for a healthy relationship is understanding the commitment being made by both sides.


Oct 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on Tuff and Tender on EmpowerMe.tv

Ric Drasin and chat-host Erin Tillman answers questions from viewers who have trouble getting their foot through the door in the dating world.

KHOW Denver

Nov 2, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on KHOW 630 AM The Modern Dater Show

“The Sheik of Cherry Creek” Greg Hollenback and “The Dating Advice Girl” Erin Tillman go at it again with round 2 of “The Dating Experts Collide.” Greg and Erin’s topics include, “the callback”, the rebound”, “how to have the protection talk?”, “when to lose the contraception?”, “Is it ok to sleep with multiple partners at once?” and much more! Great show, tune in! 

KHOW Denver

Oct 12, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on KHOW 630 AM The Modern Dater Show

Two dating experts collide! The Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman and Author of “The Dating Guide Book” Joins the Sheik Greg Hollenback on The Modern Dater show to talk about Holiday dating. Is there a difference in dating techniques depending on what season you’re in? Do you buy your new relationship companion holiday gifts, if so what? Who pays when you go out on a date? Is it hard to be a dating expert and date? 


Jul 16, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on Real Talk: The Movement

Do you date with a purpose or do you date just to be out for a good time? The Dating Advice Girl and other guests explore the idea of dating for fun vs dating with a goal in mind LISTEN HERE

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Jun 15, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on KCDZ 107.7 FM Joshua Tree, CA

The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles and talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process

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Jun 13, 2013

In honor of Fathers’ Day, The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to single dads


Jun 3, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on WGN Chicago Radio 720 AM

Late night radio host Bill Leff welcomes Erin Tillman to discuss some dating advice much of which you can find in her book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process LISTEN HERE

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Jun 2, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on WBHK 98.7 Birmingham, AL

The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles and talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process

Jun 2, 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on The Baub Show Los Angeles, CA

The Dating Advice Girl gives dating advice to new singles, talks about her new book The Dating Guidebook: Tips for Living a Happy and Healthy Single Life Without Losing Yourself in the Dating Process, and takes Bob’s co-host Mandy under her wing as she decides to embark on her own dating journey LISTEN HERE

May 2013

The Dating Advice Girl on NBC Affliate WDTN’s ‘Living Dayton’ 


Jun 2012

The Dating Advice Girl on The Nerdist’s Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast

MUFFIN DATES, TACO DATES, and OFFICIAL DATES! Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just really confusing. Join Sandra, Dave, Dating Advice Girl Erin Tillman, and dating expert extraordinaire Madison Shepard for a hilarious look at the mating dance including: Prep, During and Follow Up Procedures, Common Courtship Qualms (who pays?), Dating for Sex vs Love, Bookmarking, and why FUN should be the ultimate objective! LISTEN HERE

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